How Do You Define Sexy?

May 14th, 2012 abraham

Just like everyone has differing opinions on what makes someone beautiful, we also can’t seem to agree on what defines the word sexy.  Is it hot models showing off their perfect figures, rolling around in lingerie and posing for the camera?  Is it a football player, covered in sweat, scoring the last point and winning the game for his team?  Is it romance, soft whispers and candlelight?  Or is it dirty text messages and a quickie in the kitchen?

What does sexy really mean, anyway?

Sexy isn’t just something you do, it’s something you are, a state of mind.  Someone who is inherently sexy can look hot while doing the dishes or dancing around in her underwear-it doesn’t matter what she’s doing.  She’s sexy, plain and simple.  Have you ever seen someone try to be sexy?  It never works, does it?  It’s awkward, uncomfortable and cringe inducing.  Someone who is truly sexy never needs to force the issue.  That’s what makes them so alluring in the first place!

Being sexy is all about confidence.  Even if you feel terrible about yourself, and feel like the least sexiest person on the planet, you’ve got to fake it before you make it…but not force it.  Take a minute to remind yourself of why you’re so attractive in the first place-not just physically.  It’s about being the total, sexy, package.  Superficially though, there are a few things you can do to jumpstart your sexiness and attract more people while you’re dating.

Purchase a few outfits that make you feel like a million bucks when you’re wearing them.  Ladies, take extra time to make yourself feel pretty. Take a bubble bath and then get a manicure, a spray tan, a new hairstyle-anything that will remind you of how irresistible you are.  Guys, get a great fitting power suit and fresh hair cut.  See?  Don’t you feel sexier already?

It has nothing to do with what you do, or how far you go physically.  You don’t have to even kiss a guy for him to think you’re the sexiest woman alive.  In many cases, less is more.  The more you hold back, the more inclined he’ll be to pursue you and find out your secrets.  It sounds like game playing, but it’s not.  It’s being smart…and sexy! It also shows that you respect yourself, and that is the most attractive thing of all.

And most importantly, smile.  We would be willing to bet that the sexiest thing you can wear is not a push-up bra, but a smile and a fun attitude.  Some men might disagree with that statement!

How do you make yourself feel sexy?

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5 Tips For Have A Great First Night Date To Lead To A Second Night Date

May 4th, 2012 abraham

For some people, it is not a hard thing to make a treasured and lasting first impression take place. However, for some others it may not prove to be as easy a thing.

It all depends on who the person it is an individual. Also, how they feel about themselves. To be able to personally accomplish such a challenging task. Some of us are truly secure in who we are as people while others may not be that sure or tend to have a bit of a problem in that area. One thing for sure is, we are all different.

So with this said, there are 5 tips for have a great first night date, to lead to a second night date. Each one of these tips will help to improve the experience. They will assist in lessening the social anxiety and nervousness that a first night date can promote at the drop of a hat.

Sometimes, we feel like we’re weird or something odd, when it comes to going out on a date with someone we do not know for the first time. This may seem strange, but it is perfectly normal. So the first tip is this:

Refuse to let yourself feel weird or odd
It is true that a first date can make both parties feel uneasy. Nonetheless, refuse to give into feeling negative about yourself in any way, just be yourself. Deliver that self to your date and no one else. Ease the uneasiness by thinking of your date as only a meeting with someone brand new. This will take the pressure off you and on the moment.

Make a good presentation both inside and out
Wear something particularly engaging or something that you feel right wearing for your date. Whatever you do, do not overdo it, false advertising is not recommended. Present the best you in both appearance and in personality. Be polite and courteous.

Do not stress to impress some people can overboard when it comes to making a strong impression. Avoid doing this.

Do not stresses too impress? Focus only on creating lively conversation and lots of happiness.

Share the focus with your date
One thing that can put a serious damper on a first date is if one party constantly puts the spotlight on them alone and does not share the focus. In other words, do not talk about yourself all night; ask your date questions about him or her, include them in the conversation equally.

Once the date has concluded, share how you feel
Once the date is finished, does not mean things are totally done. You like the person and their company a whole lot. It is tremendously beneficial to communicate it to them immediately. You can do this by calling them and telling him or her that you like them and want to see them again. Do not wait too long to get your feelings across on this.

Written by Julieth, Dating chat room @Mezeeme

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